ruthbrarian’s avatarruthbrarian’s Twitter Archive—№ 5,815

  1. People being like “if you don’t have any conservative friends…” and I’m like “that’s how I grew up ok? I married one? Now we’re both pretty damn left and maybe we know the rhetoric, principles, etc etc and let go of a lot of friendships for fundamental principles” t.co/lspHDX7MY6
    1. …in reply to @ruthbrarian
      like I'm sorry, but I'm not gonna stay friends with Sharon when she gets furious about the ways I want to follow Christ AND is extremely protective of her gun. I'm gonna unfriend Susan when I see racial slurs on her FB and no I am not close enough w/her to save her.
      1. …in reply to @ruthbrarian
        I actually DO know what conservatives think because I have lost SO MANY CONNECTIONS with people from my childhood over what conservatives think. Because we disagree at such a fundamental moral level re: the humanity of people who aren't white, conservative Christians.
        1. …in reply to @ruthbrarian
          Anyway, as @no_reply says, maybe the platitude is backward and it would be a better world if people weren't so complacent about what the people in their lives think. Maybe their beliefs AND ACTIONS are more important than that childhood bond.
          1. …in reply to @ruthbrarian
            I have plenty of folks in my life with whom I disagree on issues of nuance, priority, even some serious stuff. So I'm not living unchallenged. But. BUT. FOH with suggesting complacency.